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Jennie O'Connor's avatar

Well done Marcy! This really outlines how to delete recommendations gracefully and with empathy. But I hold firm…that is a thing I will never do. Unless they start talking crazy all of a sudden, my recommendations are like my friendship…here for the long haul!

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Margaret Estelle's avatar

I have never been a huge fan of proscriptive methods for deciding who and in what way I support on Substack. I think I'm currently recommending 138 publications. The number is high by sheer fluke; I genuinely feel that each publication I recommend is worth reading. Sometimes I'll go the extra mile and write a blurb. I don't have any expectation of reciprocation. That expectation feels too transactional to me. If I recommend someone and they don't recommend me back, their writing resonated with me more than mine did with theirs. don't take it personally. I'm honored that I found their writing; the rest is a bonus. We all have unique tastes and I try to honor that in this creative space.

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